50 Shades of Grey, a good movie, controversy or both?
The paper version of 50 Shades of Grey has sold over 100 million copies worldwide. With the movie we can expect that number to go much higher. So what makes this book more appealing that J.K. Rowling’s Harry Potter series?
Sex would be my first answer, but there are lots of sexy movies that don’t draw attention like this is doing. 50 Shades is more than sex. It’s BDSM sex with a twist. While sex sells, BDSM sex is luring, contagious, and often controversial. Put all of that together in a well written book – and you have a best seller. Put that into a trilogy and Bam, the sky’s the limit! Put that trilogy into a well produced movie with hot, well bred actors and well – you have a blockbuster!
The adage that bad advertizing is the best advertizing anything can receive certainly has come to fruition with 50 Shades of Grey. What this book and now the movie succeeded in doing is creating a storm of controversy and wonder. Sex alone is interesting. Dominant sex is or can be controversial.
Put both together and you have intrigue and wonder. Some say the books demeaned women and idolized aggressive male attitudes. Others say this is a part of society that has been hidden for too long, and are glad it’s final out of the closet. Sex is part of life and should be fun and enjoyable. Domination fits those criteria for a varied group of people both straight and gay, men and women.
So what is the lure of domination? Could it be the loss of control? Or the mystery that awaits you when your partner doesn’t tell you what (s)he will do next? Add bondage to the mixture and domination is notched up considerably. Now you are at the mercy of your partner for both pleasure and the potential of pain. Does the thrill of bondage and domination bring a higher level of satisfaction to the sexual experience?
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Staring in the movie are two amazing people – Jamie Dornan and Dakota Johnson. I imagine the casting director wondering if either or both had what it would take to pull off their roles. Enough has been written on why they were selected. The teasers suggest they did a fantastic job. Critics having seen the pre-release version agree. I’m anxious to see for myself if they keep my attention, draw me into the movie, or simply hold me with their physical beauty.
I’ve heard many people talking about the movie over the past few days. The most popular question has been “Will you see it?” And the most popular answer has been, “I really want to, want to go with me?”
Will you view 50 Shades? Will you go with someone or by yourself? Or will you wait until it’s on disc to watch it is private? How will you and your partner process the scenes in the movie? Do you think a movie such as 50 Shades will enhance your romance life?